Things I Love About Writing

1. I love the sensation of my hand gliding on the paper.

It’s the best of all sensations.

“I write by hand because that is how I began, and I love it. Moving the wrist, the marks the pencil or pen leaves on the paper — like the trail of a snail — well, it is like drawing, no, it is drawing, and I am so enamoured of this activity that sometimes I write continuously without actually forming real words, I call it ‘fake handwriting,’ and it’s just as much fun as actually ‘writing’. By fun I mean it’s just as much a mystery. The whole wrist-moving action is why I write in the first place. I don’t like tennis or knitting; I like writing with my hands.”

— Mary Ruefle

2. I love the clarity writing brings me.

I write to make sense of this world. To clear my thinking. To understand the world, the people, and their motives. Whenever in doubt, depressed, or facing a dilemma, I pick up a pen and pour it all out on paper. I have been journaling for two decades now. Without writing, I wouldn’t be the person I am today.

Illustration via @jaozolins on Instagram.

3. I love how writing has become my therapy.

Because the words are a comfort. When things are rough and I have nowhere to go, writing becomes my solace. Writing makes my problems go away. I write and write and write until I have nothing left inside me to poison my soul.

Sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write, compose, or paint can manage to escape the madness, melancholia, panic, and fear which is inherent in a human situation. — Graham Greene

4. I love how writing has given me a voice.

I can express my joy, grief, hope, fun, love, beauty, opinions, and beliefs. I no longer feel being choked inside my throat.

Writing has such a power for exprssion. Even when you can’t talk with no one else in the whole world you can talk to your paper. Your feelings whether good, bad or indifferent. We call it despojo in Spanish, which means to be able to get rid of all this agony, weight inside of you. It brings clarity. — Piri Thomas

5. I love how writing has made me fearless.

I am no longer afraid of speaking my mind. I don’t hide my feelings anymore. Because of writing, I understand myself better and I understand this world better. Writing helps me dive into my feelings with courage.

“The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say but what we are unable to say.” — Anais Nin

6. I love how writing has helped me experience the joy of creation.

I can create people, places, and things. I can create a make-believe world, a place where I can forget my problems and relax. I can draw different meanings from different situations.

“You can make anything by writing.” — C. S. Lewis

7. I love how writing has become a tool to give back to the universe.

I have discovered that through my writing I can inspire others. When I am able to do that I somehow become bigger than myself. I no longer feel insignificant. I feel I have something important to say which can have an impact on someone’s life.

Writing has helped me make a place for myself in this world. People see me differently when they find out that I am the author of several books.

“One of the most fundamental of human fears is that our existence will go unnoticed.”― Ralph Keyes, The Courage to Write: How Writers Transcend Fear.

8. I love how writing has helped me meet fantastic people.

Some of the best people I have met in life are through writing. These people were hanging out in writing groups, writing courses, or online platforms. I would never have found them had I not been writing. Writing has given me a chance to connect with complete strangers, and have deep conversations with them. I now have friends all over the world.

9. I love the fact that writing never bores me.

The best time of my day is when I am writing. With writing, I am not worried if I have nothing else to do or nowhere to go. I can take it with me anywhere and everywhere. I can spend the rest of my life writing.

10. I love how writing has changed my overall outlook on life.

Writing could be all-consuming and isolated activity yet it has enriched my life tremendously. It has put into perspective the things I can and can’t control. It has taught me how to overcome my fears and stay true to myself.

We should write because writing brings clarity and passion to the act of living. Writing is sensual, experiential, and grounding. We should write because writing is good for the soul. We should write because writing yields us a body of work, a felt path through the world we live in. — Julia Cameron.

11. I love how writing has intensified the pleasure of traveling.

By writing about the places I visit, I have come to learn more about them than I otherwise would have. When are read my travel stories a few years later, I get to relive the experience once again.

12. I love seeing how writing has helped me grow.

When I first started writing, I didn’t know how to get my ideas across. Now, I’m much more confident when I write, and I can see my craft improving. There is nothing better than the feeling when someone reads and admires my writing.

13. I love the fact that my stories will be the only legacy I will leave behind.

Through my daily diary, I’m keeping an archive of my days. And that is what I want to leave behind for future generations.

Notes On Creativity

Most people, when they think of creativity, they think of art. They think of writing, music, painting, theatre, movies, dancing, and making sculptures.

But creativity isn’t just limited to arts. One can be creative in any area of life — in science, or in business, or sport.

By creativity, I simply mean new ways of thinking about things. — John Cleese, Creativity

These notes are from John Cleese’s brilliant book aptly titled, Creativity — A Short And Cheerful Guide.

You are being creative wherever you can find a way of doing things that are better than what has been done before.

There is another myth about creativity. That you have to be born with creativity. It’s not something that can be taught.

According to John Cleese, that’s not true. Creativity can be taught. “Or more accurately,” he says, “you can teach people how to create circumstances in which they will become creative.”

Image from Amzon

John Cleese was not a creative child. When he was growing up in the forties and fifties, no one talked about creativity. It simply was not in vogue, to explore one’s creativity, like it is now. John studied maths and science in school, hardly the subjects with room for creativity. “You have to learn an awful lot of science before you can even to begin to think about taking a creative approach to it.”

When he went to Cambridge, he studied Law. Not much creativity there either, unlike now when lawyers are becoming much more creative with their practices twisting the law in favor of their clients (this pun is mine).

But when he was in Cambridge, he get to know a very nice group of people who were a part of a society called ‘Floodlights.’ They used to put on little shows on the club-room stage, performing sketches and monologues and musical items.

John desperately wanted to be part of that group of people. But to become a member of ‘Footlight’ you have to write something and perform it. John wrote a couple of sketches and performed them in the monthly meeting. They made people laugh.

“It was during the course of writing sketches — the first imaginative thing I was ever conscious of doing — that I realized that I could be ‘creative.’”

Role of the unconscious mind in creativity

Then John noticed something else. He would write a sketch in the evening and often get stuck. He would try to get unstuck by sitting late, but eventually would give up and go to bed.

“And in the morning, I’d wake up and make myself a cup of coffee, and then I’d drift over to the desk and sit at it, and almost immediately, the solution to the problem I’d been wrestling with the previous evening…became quite obvious to me!”

It was like a gift, a reward for all my wrestling with the puzzle.

So this is how he started tapping on his creativity. He would put the work in before going to bed and often would have a creative idea overnight.

Once he wrote a sketch and lost it. So he wrote it again, from memory. Then he found the sketch. Out of curiosity, he cross-matched them and found that the remembered version was better.

He began to realize that his unconscious was working on stuff all the time, without him being consciously aware of it.

The Language of the Unconscious

Then he started observing other things about the unconscious mind. This intelligent unconscious of ours is astoundingly powerful. It allows us to perform most of our tasks in life without requiring us to concentrate on them.

But that doesn’t mean that our intelligent unconscious behaves in an entirely predictable way.

Put simply, you can’t ask your unconscious a question and expect a direct answer — a neat, tidy little verbal message. This is because your unconscious communicates its knowledge to you solely through the language of the unconscious.

The language of the unconscious is not verbal. It’s like the language of dreams. It shows you images, it gives you feelings; it nudges you around without you immediately knowing what it’s getting at.

Role of Play in Creativity

A psychologist Donald MacKinnon did an experiment during the early sixties at Berkeley. He asked a number of architects who were considered the most creative ones in their profession, to describe to him what they did from the moment they got up in the morning to the moment they went to bed at night.

Then he went to a number of uncreative architects and asked them exactly the same question.

He concluded that there were only two differences between creative and uncreative architects.

  • The creative architects knew how to play.
  • The creative architects always deferred making decisions for as long as they were allowed.

When MacKinnon talks about ‘play’ he means the ability to get enjoyably absorbed in a puzzle: not just try to solve it so that you can get on to the next problem, but to become really curious about it for its own sake. He described this kind of activity as ‘childlike.’ Picture small children playing. They are so absorbed in what they are doing that they are not distracted, they’re just… exploring, now knowing where they’re going, and not caring either.

Children at play are totally spontaneous. They are not trying to avoid making mistakes. They don’t observe rules. It would be stupid to say to them, ‘No, you’re not doing that right.’ At the same time, because their play has no purpose, they feel utterly free from anxiety (perhaps because adults are keeping an eye on the real world for them).

Most adults, by contrast, find it hard to be playful — no doubt because they have to take care of all the responsibilities that come with an adult’s life. Creative adults, however, have not forgotten how to play.

Most people are very surprised to learn that this involves deferring decisions for as long as possible. Doesn’t this mean that the creative architects are, by definition, indecisive? Isn’t that a bit impractical and unrealistic?

No!

It simply means they are able to tolerate that vague sense of discomfort that we all feel when some important decision is left open because they know that an answer will eventually present itself.

Creative people are much better at tolerating the vague sense of worry that we all get when we leave something unresolved.

Interruptions

The greatest killer of creativity is an interruption. It pulls your mind away from what you want to be thinking about. Research has shown that, after an interruption, it can take eight minutes for you to return to your previous state of consciousness, and up to twenty minutes to get back inot a state of deep focus.

Create boundaries of space to stop others from interrupting you.

Create boundaries of time, by arranging, for a specified period, to preserve your boundaries of space.

Mistakes

When you’re being creative, there is no such thing as a mistake.

Meditation

Once you start chasing away any distracting thoughts (John does that by writing them down), you’ll discover, just like in meditation that the longer you sit there, the more your mind slows and calms down and settles. Once that starts to happen, you can begin to focus on the problem you’ve chosen to think about.

Clarity

When we’re trying to be creative, there is a real lack of clarity during most of the process. Our rational, analytical mind, of course, loves clarity — in fact, it worships it. But at the start of the creative process, things cannot be clear. They are bound to be confusing. It’s a new thought, how can you possibly understand it straight away? You’ve never been there before. It feels unfamiliar. So, much of our ‘Tortoise Mind’ work takes place in an atmosphere of uncertainty and gentle confusion.

It’s therefore really important that you don’t rush. Let these new notions of yours slowly become clearer, and clearer, and clearer.

New Ideas

When you first have a new idea, you don’t get critical too soon. New and ‘woolly’ ideas shouldn’t be attacked by your logical brain until they’ve had time to grow and become clearer and sturdier. New ideas are like small creatures. They are easily strangled.

Looking for inspiration

“When you start something creative for the first time, you have no idea what you are doing! But, whether you’re writing or painting, or composing a song, you need to start with an idea. As a beginner, it’s not likely that you’ll come up with a very good one. So ‘borrow’ an idea from someone you admire — an idea that really appeals to you personally. If you work on that, you’ll make it your own as you play with it. You’re learning, and learning from something or someone you admire is not stealing. It’s called ‘being influenced by.’”

Of course, that doesn’t mean you can slavishly copy exactly what another person has done. That is stealing. And, in any case, what would be the point of doing that if you’re trying to produce something creative? Exact copying can teach technique, but this little book is about creativity, not forgery!

Keeping going

If you want to be creative in the world of science or architecture or medicine, you have to spend years educating yourself before you are ready to start thinking creatively about anything your colleagues might not already know.

However, in the Arts, it sometimes happens that successful novelists never quite achieve the originality of their first novel. This is because beginners sometimes have a freshness in their approach that later fades away. Picasso said that he drew better when he was ten than he ever did again. Edvard Munch’s later paintings never recaptured the intensity of his earliest ones.

The Buddhists have a phrase for this — “Beginner’s Mind” — expressing how experience can be more vivid when it’s not dulled by familiarity. Playing…keeps you “fresh.”

Coping with Setbacks

Whenever you try to come up with something original, you will find that some days the stuff flows, and some days it doesn’t. The anthropologist Gregory Bateson once said, “You can’t have a new idea ’til you’ve got rid of an old one.”

This insight helps you to view your fallow periods as preparatory to the fertile ones, and therefore as an inseparable part of the whole creative process. When the juices are not flowing, don’t beat yourself up and wonder if you should retrain as a priest. Just sit around and play, until your unconscious is ready to cough up some stuff. Getting discouraged is a total waste of your time

Get Your Panic in Early

Begin with simple stuff, such as…Who are you writing for? Then, you can ask yourself whether the audience will easily accept what you’re saying, or whether they might be resistant. If so, you’ll have to persuade them, and not just tell them.

Then you can start pondering, “What am I really trying to say?” “What is the point of this piece of journalism, or speech, or book, or play, or pamphlet, or email?” Think up different approaches, compare them, begin gathering key facts and research — it never does any harm to have a few quotes!

Finally remember the famous apology, “Sorry this is such a long letter, but I didn’t have time to write a shorter one.” So when you finish your first draft:

  • Cut anything that is not relevant (there will be more than you think).
  • Don’t repeat yourself unless you really want to.

Your thoughts follow your mood

We all know that if we’re depressed, we don’t have cheerful, optimistic, energetic thoughts. And if we are happy, we can’t take gloomy pessimistic thoughts seriously. If we’re angry, we don’t want to play with the kittens — we want to plot our revenge. If we’re anxious, we worry. If we’re full of ourselves, we feel decisive. If we’re feeling envious, we can’t enjoy other people’s success much.

Now, feeling creative isn’t exactly an emotion. It’s a frame of mind. But if you’re in the wrong frame of mind — if you’re distracted or worrying about something else — it follows that you’e not going to be creative.

The Dangers of Over-Confidence

As a general rule, when people become absolutely certain that they know what they’re doing, their creativity plummets. This is because they think they have nothing more to learn. Once they believe this, they naturally stop learning and fall back on established patterns. And that means they don’t grow.

Kill Your Darlings

Any good work of art will change — sometimes in major ways — during the course of its creation. At the beginning of the process, a writer may get a great idea — one that they particularly like. This is their “darling.” Inevitably, as the project develops, parts of the story will change and that “darling” may not fit well into the new version of the narrative. A good writer will jettison it. A less good writer will hang on to it, so hindering the transition of the story to its new form.

Seeking a Second Opinion

If you are an experienced writer, and you show people your work, there are four questions you need to ask:

  • Where were you bored?
  • Where could you not understand what was going on?
  • Where did you not find things credible?
  • Was there anything that you found emotionally confusing?

Once you have the answers to these, then you go away, decide how valid the problems are…and fix them yourself. The people you have asked will probably suggest their solutions too. Ignore these completely. Smile, look interested, thank them, and leave because they have no idea what they’re talking about. Unless they are writers themselves. Then…listen carefully. But at the end of the day, you and only you must decide which criticisms and suggestions you accept.

As to when you should seek a second opinion, you should do so when you have reached a point of sufficient clarity for someone else’s judgment to be of practical help. Don’t wait until you feel your idea or project is as good as possible, because you may waste a lot of time if you ask for feedback too late in the procedure.

Here are two very interesting and informative videos by John Cleese. I urge you to take some time and listen to them.

The first one is an interview where he talks about his book. A fascinating account.

The second one, Creativity In Management, is a talk given by John Cleese to an international audience at Grosvenor House Hotel, London on 23rd January 1991.

https://youtu.be/klvQrn7cK7c

I Am Not Busy Anymore, I Am Fully Optimized

The word we chose determines how we feel.

Recently I learned how much power ‘words’ have on us.

The words not only have meaning but also emotions attached to them.

Lately, I have been using the word ‘busy,’ a lot.

‘Busy’ is a word with negative connotations. It’s a word I associate with drowning in work. I literally feel suffocated.

So, when I say ‘I am busy,’ I feel anxious, overwhelmed, and heading towards burnout.

So I replaced it with ‘fully optimized.’ The next time someone asked me how my day was going, I said, ‘Couldn’t be better. I am fully optimized.’

It instantly felt better. It generated a different emotional reaction. I felt in control and on top of things.

Think about the words in your life that might restrict you. Find a replacement word for them and watch the magic happen.

I Got Rid Of Overwhelm Virus For Good, With A Simple Remedy

When I quit working back in 2019, I thought I will have all the time in the world, now that I don’t have to commute to work, and spend most of my waking hours doing meaningless things that others want me to do.

I thought I would wake up leisurely each morning, go over the newspaper over a cup of tea, spend a couple of hours writing, then go out to visit a gallery or meet a friend, before heading home for a long, interesting evening.

Instead, I was chasing my tail all day, doing things I never thought I would have to do. Things such as writing articles, social media posts, newsletters, doing marketing, web calls, seminars, and webinars.

I had contracted the overwhelmed virus.

The virus incapacitated me for years. I kept soldiered on. I reduced the number of articles I published each week to just one. I made them smaller. I stopped writing on my website and concentrated just on Medium. I ignored Facebook and LinkedIn completely. I still couldn’t manage.

I was about to quit, but before that, I gave writing one last shot.

What I did might sound contradictory, but I set myself a challenge to write 100 articles in 100 days.

From 13 April, 2021 to 21 July, 2021, I wrote 100 articles without missing a day. How did I do that when I was finding it hard to write even one article a week?

You might think the answer lies in increased ability, yet that’s not it. I didn’t suddenly become more talented in those days.

You might suggest I somehow had more time to write, but it wasn’t even that. During those months, I wrote and published my first book.

So, how did I do it?

I stopped fretting and kept ploughing ahead.

Writing and publishing an article day becomes a task just like cooking or doing dishes.

As soon as I stop writing (and publishing) every day, writing becomes difficult again.

Prior to 100 articles, I had taken part in NaNoWriMo several times and I knew if I could meet the challenge of writing 50,000 words in 30 days, I can write an article a day.

Surprisingly, I don’t get overwhelmed when I am participating in a writing challenge or publishing an article a day.

That overwhelm comes from less, not more.

I don’t know if you’ve ever been part of a 30-day challenge, but a simple challenge like that can solve your problem of overwhelm forever.

Then I have another ace up my sleeve, and it’s called “planning”.

When faced with writing 7 articles in a week, you can’t just sit down and write each day. Your brain is fried with the thought of having to create such a high volume of work on a constant basis. The only way forward is to sit down and work out a plan. And that’s precisely what I do.

Without the plan, I would be soon flounder. To get those articles out day after day without fail, the only lifesaver is a plan.

Time and time again, the people who are overwhelmed will almost always not have a plan. When you know you have to write something every day, you will read online magazines, or go to the library and come back with an armload of books, you will keep your eyes and ears open for stories.

You will make notes, collect headline, have draft articles ready for the next day. You are ready. Just like you stock your fridge and pantry for the week to cook every night, you stock your draft folder with draft articles for the week.

If you go back to the root of overwhelm, you will almost always find a lack of planning.

Once you get down to planning, you realize it’s a bit like being on the road.

You may have the plan to get to your destination, but things have changed since you got into your car. There might be too much traffic, or an accident up ahead. Every lousy driver seems to have shown up on the road at the exact point you started on your journey.

When we start a project, we realise things change and our plans have to change too. That’s fine. Yet planning helps.

They say plans are worthless, but planning is priceless.

It is during planning that we are prepping our mind for the task ahead. And most of the time the only thing standing between us and our goal is our ‘mind.’

Usually, it takes much less time to do a task when we ‘feel’ like it. But when we don’t, a simple task feels like a mammoth.

There are ways to trick our ‘mind.’ If you can make the task a routine, the mind allocates the task to the ‘autopilot.’

Autopilot is the subconscious part of the brain that takes care of all routine mundane activities, such as brushing our teeth, washing the dishes, turning the TV at news time.

When article writing become a routine, subconscious mind takes over and it keeps working on it all day in the background.

Most people who get things done have similar routines

They first set a plan in place, and then turn it into a routine.

The people who are overwhelmed never have a plan, and hence no routine either.

Check out the busiest, most productive people you know and they’ll have plans and routines. Find someone who is overwhelmed all the time, and they’ll tell you they have plans and routines, but they often have none. They complain they have no time to plan. Well, there you go — it’s all downhill from thereon.

A plan needs to exist, or nothing happens.

Planning also stops us from taking on too much.

When your day is already filled with drawing lessons, writing articles, and learning software you really should master — you know that you’ve got enough on your plate. Without the plan in place, it seems you can slot in more stuff.

I plan my year, my months, and then my weeks. But I don’t plan my days. My days have routines. Even then I keep most of my days flexible so that I can handle emergencies and make room for spontaneity.

To get off the overwhelm bandwagon, you first have to work out a plan.

Then the plan has to become a routine. But that’s just the starting point. It doesn’t help if you take ages to get something done.

Productive people also have another superpower. That power is called fluency. Fluency is the ability to do a task quickly and effortlessly.

Look at all the work you’re doing, and you can be sure you’re wasting massive amounts of time.

Let’s take the simple act of finding interesting images for your articles. Do you do that each time you write an article, or you set aside half an hour in a week and download a bunch of free images to use in your articles?

The difference between people who get a lot done vs those that struggle is merely the lack of fluency.

We fail to create such shortcuts because of course, we’re busy. We fail to implement new features because we have a life. But it’s all a lack of fluency, and it leads to a drain of energy.

Once your energy is drained, you’ve heading towards a state of overwhelm.

You can get a high-quality article done in 90 minutes flat or sweat over it for days on end.

People who are overwhelmed take the longer route

The way to get away from that overwhelming feeling is to ask yourself: How can I do the task in ‘x’ minutes?

Or x. hours?

It is not as hard as you believe. In reality, most of us can reduce the number of hours we spend on writing quite dramatically.

What the word ‘overwhelm’ suggests is that we have lost control.

The word ‘overwhelm used to give me negative feelings. I have eliminated it from my dictionary and replaced it with ‘fully optimized.’

Now, when I feel I am losing control, I don’t think ‘overwhelm’ I think of re-prioritizing. It changes my perspective. I don’t get negative feeling about the situation I am in. Rather, I feel energized to review and realign my priorities.

If you use the word overwhelm, that alone will kill you. The way out of overwhelm is not exactly easy, but it starts with a word change.

‘Optimized’, or ‘Re-prioritize’ are good start. Once you have replaced the word, you can start working on achieving fluency.

Takeaway

Anyone can get to where he or she wants to be and do it without feeling overwhelmed.

It’s a combination of several elements, but in the end, those who are able to meet the source of their overwhelm head-on and become fluent at it, can be free of the virus forever.

I Deconstructed 100 Of Tim Denning’s Articles And This Is What I learned

I have figured out how Tim Denning is writing ten articles a week and why readers love reading them.

Ever since I started writing on Medium in 2020, Tim Denning has been consistently generating ten articles a week. When many top writers gave up on the platform and started looking elsewhere, he kept showing up, hardly discouraged by what was happening around him.

You got to give him credit for that.

No wonder he has 305,000 followers on Medium and close to half a million on LinkedIn.

When I was new to Medium, I was in awe of his ability to consistently churn so many articles. At that time, he was working full-time and was also running courses and writing ebooks. I thought he had an inborn talent for writing to be so productive. Mind you, in those days it used to take me 7 to 8 hours to write one article.

As I get to know him a bit better, I learned he was a normal young man with steely determination.

As I am using his strategy to write five articles in a day, this week I sat down and read over a hundred of his articles in a single sitting and deconstructed them.

With little ado, here is what I found.

Writing articles in batches is a better strategy than writing an article a day.

As Tim has told us multiple times that he writes articles only on Tuesdays and Thursdays. He writes and schedules 5 articles on each of these days. I used to think it is beyond anyone’s ability (except Tim) to do that. But as I started doing it myself, I found it is in fact easier to write five articles in a day than to write one a day.

The reasons are:

  • You are laser-focused (Tim calls it being in the flow state).
  • You know you have roughly 60 to 90 minutes per article, so you don’t waste time.
  • You can do images and footers for all articles in 5 -10 minutes.
  • You can use parts of the material in multiple articles.
  • You can choose one topic (say productivity) and write five articles in one go. The next day, you can choose another topic and write another five articles.

Stream-of-consciousness writing is the way to write better.

Most of Tim’s article flows so well as if he is just sitting opposite you and talking to you. You can call it mastery or you can call it stream-of-consciousness writing (or free writing).

Stream-of-consciousness writing happens when you don’t have to think and you just keep on writing as it comes. And usually, it is quick, fluent, and much more engaging.

When you have written as many articles as Tim has, most of your ideas are already clear in your head. You remember your stories so well that they pour out of your fingers at the right place, at the right time.

I am writing this article as stream-of-consciousness writing. I have not outlined this article. I am not sure what I am going to write in the following paragraphs. But I trust the right thoughts will keep coming until there are no more and then the article will be done.

Most of his articles are Leggo blocks put together.

There are so many structures and templates to write good and balanced articles. But I am mesmerized by Tim’s structure. He writes in blocks and then seamlessly puts them together as coherent articles.

There is an advantage in writing in blocks. You can pre-write them. I know Tim uses Roam Research to take notes. Roam Research allows you to take notes in the dot-point format only. Tim skillfully uses the notes he collects in his articles. Some of them he reuses multiple times, but you won’t even notice because it fits within the context.

Block format is also good for embedding stories. For example, he tells the following story in the middle of an article:

Author Ryan Holiday told the story of buying the book “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius at age 19.

There was an option at the time to get the book for free online. Ryan chose to pay for a copy and get a decent translation of it in modern English.

The decision seemed tiny.

But years later, he became obsessed with stoicism thanks to this $20 investment.

Now he’s built a multi-million-dollar career out of stoicism.

He has already told two stories before this one and then there is one more in the last third of the article.

Isn’t that cool?

Stories make the articles interesting. And they also make the articles less dense, giving the readers breathing space.

He spends more time on the headings than on the body of the articles.

His headings are brilliant. They are not the clickbaity. They are not even the ones with the highest score on the heading analyzers (I don’t know whether he runs them past an analyzer or not).

Instead, his headings are long and reader-centric. He has many bases on personal stories and lessons learned from them.

Here, have a look at a few of them:

The #1 Way to Succeed as an Online Writer Is to Stop Playing It Safe

Never Underestimate Someone Who Practices Self-Education in Their Free Time

The (Realistic) Way to Go from $0 to 7-Figures Online in 365 Days

Today I Lost $6000 on a Rogue Accountant. Here’s How *Not* to Get Screwed by Strangers.

Workplace Principles I Know at 36, I Wish I Had Known at 21

He has an ambition and a drive to become world-class in at least one thing.

None of the above things would have worked had he not had the ambition and the discipline to become a world-class player.

At age 12, he decided that he wanted to be world-class at one thing.

He chose drumming. He went all in for that and found a teacher drummer who trained him as if he’d become a navy seal.

Learning from him put me in a constant state of overwhelm.

As he grew up, Tim grew out of drumming. But he didn’t forget his trainer’s weird way of training him. When he chose to write as his vocation, he applied everything he learned as a drummer to writing.

Today he is in the top 1% of writers in the world.

Without that ambition and discipline, he wouldn’t have been able to be a world-class writer in less than 8 years.

Closing Remark

It took me 57 minutes to write this article, along with pulling out quotes and links, 10 minutes to edit it and 3 minutes to select an image and add a footer.

I have not reached the state of writing and scheduling 5 articles in one day yet, but I am sure if I continue at it, I will be able to, with a few weeks of practice.

I may not have Tim’s trainer to coach me, but I have six decades of life experience to draw from. If I am able to write and schedule 5 article in a day, it will be a great achievement for me.

Thank you, Tim, for giving me something to strive for.

Are Our Reading Habits Scr*wed Forever

Before smartphones and before the internet, I used to read newspapers, magazines, and novels. Now it has been more than a decade since I have read a newspaper. I stopped buying magazines ages ago and I have to force myself to finish the novel even if it is well-recommended and I am enjoying it.

Instead, I spend hours on LinkedIn, Medium, blogs, and countless newsletters I subscribe to. I have tried to get away from it all and get back to some serious reading but failed. Serious reading bores me now. I want a fast-paced bite-size reading I can do in between chores and my own writing commitments.

Hamish Mckenzie, cofounder and Chief Writing Officer of Substack wrote an article, Time To Read, in which he admitted, “If I picked up a book instead of reflexively opening Twitter every couple of hours, I’m sure I would have read through my way through a library in the last 10 years.”

Social media is conspiring against our better instincts. It wants to feed us continuous dopamine hits and we keep accepting its offer.

The economic model for supporting content on the internet sucks. It doesn’t put readers first. The readers are addicted to Twitter and TikTok because these companies are zeroing in on the most titillating content to keep readers in a perpetual state of not-quite-satisfied-but-close. Social media companies are serving advertisers, not the readers.

For hundreds of years, publishing giants, newspapers, and magazines were making money through advertisements. But the internet vaporized that model. The new publishing giants, the social media companies, have a new model — ad-overload.

In all this mayhem, the writers were forgotten. They didn’t have the security of an agency behind them. They are not only expected to write for free but to continuously produce an unbelievable amount of content.

Medium came up with the concept of a Paywall

Medium.com was one of the first publishing companies to come up with a plan to pay writers for their work. They introduced a Paywall. They charged readers a monthly subscription fee and paid writers a portion of that based on the number of views and clicks.

The model became so successful that millions of readers and thousands of writers flocked to the platform. They ranged from amateurs to experts, all writing being able to find readers. But after enjoying an unbelievable amount of success for 3 to 4 years, Medium.com started on a downward spiral. There were several reasons for that and one of them being Medium started concentrating on readers (from where the revenue was coming) and ignored the writers (who were doing the hard yards to make Medium a success).

Thankfully things are beginning to change in mid-2022. The new CEO, Tony Stubblebine, is trying to turn the ship. While Medium was on a downward spiral, a new model emerged, introduced by Substack.

Substack model is different

Substack didn’t pay the writers as Medium did, but it allowed them to charge their readers directly. Writers could send their work directly to readers’ inboxes and charge whatever they thought it was worth. Substack made it possible and took a 10 percent cut of subscription revenue generated by the writers on the platform.

Substack can succeed only when writers succeed.

It’s a better model because one of the better ways an internet publishing company can provide value is by helping writers find more readers and make more money. And the best way to do that is to make sure readers are happy. Doing the right thing for the writer means doing the best thing for readers.

The way Substack is providing a great reading experience is:

  • by providing clean, simple, fast-to-load posts
  • no Ads
  • no pop-ups
  • directly in the inbox
  • option to read in the App
  • growth within the platform.

On Substack, readers have a closer relationship with the writer they care about. And writers have the ability and space to go deep into the issues that really matter to them.

A writer’s primary loyalty is to readers, and they get rewarded for using their attention wisely. They don’t have to play a game with an algorithm or trick readers into clicking like they had to with Medium. They are independent and not at the mercy of a company.

If they disappoint readers, the readers have the power to unsubscribe with just a click.

Readers don’t subscribers to newsletters

They subscribe to writers.

They want to know what their favorite writer’s thoughts are on a range of topics, what their experiences and learnings are, and what their life is like.

I subscribe to several newsletters, but in fact, I subscribe to the writers.

I want to read what they are saying. When I am reading a writer’s post, it’s just me and the words. I bury myself in the writer’s thoughts and eloquence and ideas.

The future of online writing will be different

The first thirty years of the internet were built on the mistaken business assumption that online reading isn’t worth as much physical reading. So they focused on clickbait or social flotsam and jetsam.

But the internet is still just getting started, and so is Substack. The way we’ve thought about online writing and reading for these first 30 years won’t be true for the next 30.

Big things are still to come. Writers will have the power their work directly with their readers.

And the readers will have the power to choose which writers they want to read.