What is holding your attention?

“Whatever you will focus your attention on will grow in your life,” a mentor once said to me.

I had almost forgotten such an important lesson.
Because my attention was distributed between different things.

As I am dropping projects one by one, I am getting my time and energy back.

But more importantly, I can focus my attention on things that matter to me the most.

Our attention is our most important resource. Even more than time and energy.

What we’re paying attention to impacts how we experience every second, minute, and hour of our lives.

Attention is the very fuel of the modern economy.

But managing our attention is becoming increasingly difficult.

When we give our attention away freely to everyone who asks for it, every company that demands it, it affects us in all areas of our lives.

One way I am taking back ownership of my attention is by building my knowledge management system.

All my insights, ideas, thoughts, and notes at one place. It is taking time and energy but I once I am done with it, my knowledge management system will enhance my productivity multiple times.

This project has my full attention at the moment.

What has got your attention at the moment?

Make something wonderful

If you haven’t come across Make Something Wonderful, a new eBook on Steve Jobs’s life, created by Jony Ive and Laurene Powell to celebrate his life, I suggest you do so. It is FREE, and it is brilliant. In creating the book, Jony and Laurene made something wonderful. I loved the format of the book, the way they have compiled excerpts from his speeches, emails, and photos, and the way the booking flow – part media part text.

The hidden treasure of old books

The two bloggers I admire most in the whole blogging world (Maria Popova and Austin Kleon) do everything against the rules. They read lots of books and then quote them in their blog posts. Whenever I need soup for my soul, I go to their blogs and read until my heart and soul id full.

I often wonder why don’t I reach for old books when I want to read something. I own quite a few of them, and I keep adding to my collection but when the time comes to choose something to read, I reach for a new title.

Why?

Perhaps, somewhere in the back of my mind, I have this belief that a new-age writer would build on the previous knowledge and would have more profound insights. Whereas quite the opposite is true. We, the new-age writers, are reinventing the wheel. We are trying to discover the same truths which our predecessors had already discovered centuries ago. With lesser distractions (no TV, internet, smartphones, and social media) they had time to go deep.

So today, I read an old book during my exploration time (I wrote about it in last week’s letter). I came across this gem from a Goodreads list.

A Book of Five Rings: The Classic Guide to Strategy was written by Miyamoto Musashi, shortly before his death in 1645. Miyamoto Musashi was an undefeated Japanese swordsman. Toward the end of his life, he retreated to a cave to live as a hermit, there he wrote five scrolls describing the “true principles” for victory in the martial arts and on the battlefield.

What could I have learned from a seventeenth-century swordsman?

Apparently a lot.

Musashi was thirteen years old when he won his first dual and by the age of twenty-eight, he traveled from province to province dueling with the warriors from various schools. He had sixty encounters and never failed to win.

But when he reached thirty and looked back at his past, he realized his victories were not because of having mastered strategy. He reckons, “Perhaps it was natural ability, or the order of heaven, or that other school’s strategy was inferior.”

So he went on the quest to find the “true principles” and came to realize them when he was fifty.

He writes:

“There are various Ways. There is the Way of salvation by the law of Buddha, the Way of Confucius governing the Way of learning, the Way of healing as a doctor, as a poet teaching the Way of Waka, tea, archery, and many arts and skills. Each man practices as he feels inclined. .. [A] warrior’s is the twofold way, the Way of pen and sword, and he should have a taste for both Ways. Even if a man has no natural ability he can be a warrior by sticking assiduously to both divisions of the Way.”

In the book, Musashi explains the Way of Strategy. The Way of Strategy is different from the way of the warrior.

“Generally speaking,” he writes, “The Way of the warrior is resolute acceptance of death. Not only warriors but priests, women, peasants and lowlier folk have been known to die readily in the cause of duty or out of shame, this is a different thing.”

Whereas the Way of Strategy is to overcome men. It is to gain victory by crossing swords with individuals or enjoining battle with large numbers. Its aim is to win on the power of strategy. Strategy matters a lot. Immature strategy can cause defeat and even death.

Here are a few quotes from the book:

“…there is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.”

“All men are the same except for their belief in their own selves, regardless of what others may think of them.”

“Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.”

“You must understand that there is more than one path to the top of the mountain”

“Whatever the Way, the master of strategy does not appear fast….Of course, slowness is bad. Really skillful people never get out of time, and are always deliberate, and never appear busy.”

“There is no one way to salvation, whatever the manner in which a man may proceed. All forms and variations are governed by the eternal intelligence of the Universe that enables a man to approach perfection. It may be in the arts of music and painting or it may be in commerce, law, or medicine. It may be in the study of war or the study of peace. Each is as important as any other. Spiritual enlightenment through religious meditation such as Zen or in any other way is as viable and functional as any “Way.”… A person should study as they see fit.”

Who could say, these insights are three hundred years old? And who could say they are relevant to swordsmen only?

The two hours I spent with Miyamoto Musashi this morning were an absolute delight. It was like sitting with him in a cave and listening to his

Contemporaneous portrait of Miyamoto Musashi. Source: Wikipedia

Miyamoto Musashi had a significant impact on Japanese culture. He is considered a Kensei, a sword-saint of Japan, a unique double-bladed swordsman, writer, strategist, and philosopher.

Later I found three-part video series which tells more about his life and explains his philosophy in much simpler terms.

A Life of Ultimate Focus

The Way of the Ronin (Dokkodo)

The Path of the Loner

I would never have found such a treasure without dwelling in old books and without a dedicated exploratory time.


Want to read lots of books but don’t have time? Watch this 7 minutes video. It will change how you read books, forever. It has changed mine.

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Decide who you want to be…

When I was growing up, I did not know what I wanted to be. but I knew what I didn’t want to be.

I knew for sure, that I didn’t want to be a teacher. Both my parents were teachers and I thought their life was boring.

Where my friend’s parents held “exciting” jobs (they were doctors, and engineers, owned a business or worked for the government). My parents went to school for the rest of their lives. ?

My lack of direction led to my biggest failure in life. I couldn’t pass the entrance exam to medical school. So clueless was I that I thought,
none of my friends will get through, as it is practically impossible to prepare for five subjects in a single day.

They all did. I was the only one who didn’t.

My friends wanted to become doctors. While I didn’t know what I wanted.

As life progressed, I stumbled through many professions, without much of a career goal. I followed a path I could see in front of me and took the opportunities as they arose.

But then, in my late fifties, I suddenly knew what I wanted to be.

I wanted to be a writer. Not just a writer, but an author of several books. But there was one tiny problem. My writing sucked.

But that minor detail didn’t stop me from becoming what I wanted to become. In mere four years, I became the author of four books.

Don’t underestimate the power of your desire. If your desire is strong enough, the universe bends it’s back to give you what you want.

But you got to know what you want.

Dolly Parton said, “Find out who you are and do it on purpose.”

It can’t be easier than that.

There is no rush…

Sprints are great to build a habit and to bring momentum, but real achievements happen when you are consistent.

The American Navy Seal has a saying — Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.

Long-distance marathon runners know that. They learn to pace themselves. The way they pace themselves is by understanding their bodies during the training. They are taught to focus on their heart rate while running . To gauge their perceived exertion while running. And to slow down appropriately. They need to be able to run without huffing and puffing.

During training, new runners are asked to run a mile as fast as they can. That is their magic mile. When they are running long distances,
they are asked to run 2 to 3 minutes slower than their magic mile. That way they conserve their energy. Pacing means “undershooting” your best performance. It means doing things without exertion.

How to apply that to writing?

Find out your peak performance, then slow down from there.

A cheetah can run 76 mph but covers only 4 miles a day. Elephants can run only at 15 mph, but walk about 50 miles a day. They are in no rush. They know how to pace themselves.