Why I started a newsletter?

And why you should, too.

I started a newsletter because
I wanted something that was mine.

No algorithm.
Not a platform that could shadow ban me,
throttle my reach,
or one day disappear.

Not a “follower count” that looked impressive
but didn’t actually mean much.

I wanted real connections.
Real readers.
Real conversations.

And you know what?
2000 subscribers who chose to be on my list
who open my emails, reply,
and sometimes even hit “buy”
are worth more to me than 20,000 passive followers
who scroll past my posts on social media.

Social media is like yelling into a noisy room.
A newsletter is like inviting someone into your home.

It’s personal.
It’s quiet.
It builds trust.

If you’re trying to build something-
a business, a creative career, a body of work
you can’t rely entirely on platforms you don’t control.

You need a space where you own the list, the message, and the relationship.

That’s why I started a newsletter.
And that’s why you should, too.

Subscribe to mine to learn how to start yours.

How to grow your newsletter from scratch?

That’s the most common question I hear when someone
wants to start a newsletter.

When I started mine 4.5 years ago on Substack, I had no audience.
No email list.
No viral posts.

Just a deep desire to help writers.

Here’s what I did instead of chasing followers:
– I picked one clear problem my newsletter would solve
– I created a simple lead magnet (not perfect—just useful)
– I told everyone I knew personally, one by one
– I showed up every week, even when no one was watching

It was slow.
But it was solid.

No advertising.
No hacks.
Just trust.
I built it one reader at a time.

Today, my content gets read by more people than ever,
and it all started with a handful of audience.

So if you’re starting from scratch, here’s my reminder:
You don’t need huge following. You need a reason to be read.

If you’ve got that, you’ve already begun.
Subscribe to join a wave of creators building bold, brilliant, and wildly successful businesses.

How to find your ideal client?

Early in my entrepreneurial career
I heard a piece of advice that stuck with me like superglue.

Just one simple, elegant line, shared by a man named Larry Winget.

It went like this:

👉 “Find your uniqueness and exploit it in the service of others.”

That’s it. That’s the line.

And it’s the best personal branding advice I’ve ever received.

Let me tell you why.
Three years ago, I was a struggling writer.
An author-entrepreneur figuring it out on the go.

I had expertise, but no clear roadmap.
I wanted to help others, but didn’t know how to make it sustainable.
I wanted to build a business, but didn’t want to lose myself in the noise.

Then it hit me:
The person I was back then… is the person I now serve.

Most of us aren’t trying to build a brand.
We’re trying to be useful.
We want to help someone.

To make something easier for the next person.
To turn our scars into roadmaps.

The shortcut to be able to do that is:
To find the people who are in the same place you were three years ago.

Because you are most powerfully positioned to serve the person you once were.

Not the person you admire.
Not the audience you think you should chase.
But the version of you from five, ten, or twenty years ago.

The one who felt lost.
Overwhelmed.
Unqualified.
Stuck.
Afraid.

You already know that person.
You know their struggles, their questions, and their Google search history.
You know what would’ve helped them most.

That’s your who.
And once you find your who, everything else starts to make sense.
And the truth I’ve learned is this:

👉 “You are most powerfully positioned to serve the person you once were.”

That’s your story.
That’s your brand.
That’s your business.

If you’re still in the messy middle, wondering if your journey matters. It does.
You’ve just got to turn around and reach for the hand of the person behind you.
I promise, they’re waiting.

Subscribe to learn more.

This week, something beautiful happened.

One of my long-time LinkedIn followers became a paid subscriber to my newsletter.

As I do with all the new paid subscribers, I asked her two simple questions. Her answers left me feeling deeply honoured, and grounded.

Question 1: What motivated you to become a paid subscriber?
This question helps me understand which one of my growth strategies are working

Her reply?
“I became a paid subscriber because you intrigue me. You are doing exactly what I would like to be doing. And, I believe 100% in you. You have always impressed me, and so it was a simple decision. I believe in YOU.”

We talk about building trust all the time. But this is what trust-in-action looks like.

Question 2: What’s your #1 challenge at the moment?
This one helps me understand how I can help my subscribers move forward.

She wrote:
“My number 1 challenge is creating a business that aligns with who I am now, at 65 (on Saturday!). I want a business like yours—sharing my knowledge and insights with others, while making some money at it. My challenge is trying to figure HOW to do that. Your PDF came at the right time… now I just need to follow your instructions, starting with creating a signature offer. That is my first step.”

In that response, I saw not just a hurdle—but a clear desire.

And at the root of it

Trust.

That’s the real currency of this creator economy. Not likes. Not followers. Not viral posts.

Trust that you can deliver.
Trust that you walk your talk.
Trust that you care.

If you’re building something online, don’t chase attention—earn trust.
That’s what turns followers into clients.
And readers into believers.
Subscribe to learn more.

If selling makes you cringe, this is for you

You’ve got an offer.
You know it helps people.
But the moment you have to sell it, you freeze.
You don’t want to sound pushy, or desperate, or fake.

Here’s the mindset shift that helped me:
You’re not trying to convince anyone.
You’re just inviting the right people to take the next step.

When your content builds trust, your offer becomes a natural next move.
Not a pitch, just a suggestion.
No pressure.
No weird energy.
Just: “Hey, if this helped… I’ve got more.”

If you want to learn how to sell through trust, not tactics.
Subscribe to my newsletter.

People don’t buy because you’re smart.

They buy because they trust you.

You’re sharing tips. Posting value. Showing up every week.
But it still feels like your audience is watching, not buying.

Here’s the missing piece: story.

Not just any story but specific kinds of stories.

There are five types that build trust:

– Your origin story (what got you here)
– A transformation (yours or a client’s)
– A win that proves your system works
– A values story (what you stand for)
– And your mission story (why you’re doing this in the first place)

You don’t need all five in one go.
Start with the one that feels easiest.

Tell it in your words. Your voice. No polish needed.
That’s what makes it land.

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