How ‘Pottering About’ Has Become My Productivity Strategy

Two years ago, when I quit the competitive life to embrace the creative life, I went full throttle on several creative projects.

I wrote prolifically to populate my website, dusted a three-year-old manuscript, started working on it, joined multiple courses, started writing on Medium, commenced a Substack newsletter, and began a publication.I am not working, I told myself. I have no excuse to slack. My output should be double or triple as before.

On the contrary, my productivity dropped, and I reached a near burnout stage.

I tend to overcommit to the extent that I become obsessed with productivity. I worked more than ten hours a day and still couldn’t finish the tasks I had assigned myself. I was continually stressed, exhausted, and feeling un-creative.

I didn’t know what to do; until I read Anna McGovern’s story.

Six years ago, Anna McGovern was struggling like me. Working full time as a digital producer, she raised three children and took care of her aging father, and later on, when he passed away, dealing with the grief.

She recognized that she had “done a bit too much for a bit too long.” She needed things to be different. Although she would have loved to pack her bags and travel, the family commitment wouldn’t allow that to happen. Instead, she decided to take one day a week off work, during which she listened to the radio, flicked through magazines, and slowly worked her way through minor DIY projects.

A couple of months into her new routine, McGovern realized that what she was doing could only be described as pottering.

Such was the restorative powers of pottering that she decided to research the activity further and ended up writing a book about it — Pottering: A Cure for Modern Life.

What is Pottering?

A peculiar British pastime, pottering is any gentle activity – that could be done in the home or outside, without a definite plan or purpose, where you meander from one thing to another.

Potter about, in short, is the thing which we should all be doing. It might seem like a total time-waster when being productive every minute of the day has been drilled into our psyche, yet it is the thing that makes us most productive. It gives the mind a break it needs from the continuous demand we make of it.

“I think you can lose yourself entirely while you’re pottering. It’s a mental break. It’s completely unpressured and it frees you momentarily from all responsibility. It may seem inconsequential, but it has a uniquely restful effect, which I only discovered by chance.” — Anna McGovern

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But not every activity can be pottering.

Although there are no hard and fast rules pottering does have some characteristics.

It has to be something you enjoy.

Mike Powell loves doing dishes. He called it a welcome ritual, a ballast against the chaos of the everyday. (His article in New York Times is worth a read.)

A friend of mine loves cleaning her fridge. The act of wiping the glass shelves, arranging the bottles in the door in height order, and arranging the vegetables in transparent boxes in the bottom drawer is her thing. My sister-in-law finds peace when she is ironing. Give her a stack of clothes, and she is a happy bee.

One person’s pottering may be another person’s domestic drudgery. If ironing clothes, doing laundry, and mopping floors do nothing for you, it is not pottering.

Improvisation is the key.

Pottering is different than a hobby. You don’t need to learn a new skill or make something. Pottering is about making the best of your circumstances and the resources you have to hand. Being inventive and making do with things at hand is the key. If you have something to mend, and it can keep your finger moving, it is pottering. But if you have to follow a pattern and make a dress that fits you, it is not pottering.

“The distinguishing feature of pottering as opposed to ‘jobs around the house’ is the slow pace at which you do it,” claims McGovern.

Pottering is not glamorous.

You don’t have to put too much effort in, go very far, or even do it with others. It is not a lifestyle concept, and it doesn’t require practice.

Unlike mindfulness, there is no technique to be mastered.

First and foremost, “a chance to have a moment free of responsibility and free of the tyranny of pressure.”

Bring in some movement.

Pottering also implies movement, but not a lot of movement. Slow, light, fluid motion is what is called for. Movement causes a “cascade effect.” The unplanned, improvised sequence can send you into a “meditative state.” Once you are in this state of flow, you feel the calm set in. You live in the moment, just like in a bird or a fish who are satisfied in whatever state of being they are.

For movement, think of Buddhist monks making mandalas. There is something utterly soothing and meditative about making intricate patterns with slow fluid movements.

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You can’t try too hard.

Another characteristic of pottering is not trying too hard. “There is no such thing as ‘doing it well,’” McGovern writes, reassuringly. “There are no benchmarks for success… no one is judging your performance when you find a matching lid and plastic pot in the odd assortment of containers you use for freezing leftover food. It’s just not something you can ‘excel’ at.”

There is nothing ‘wrong’ or ‘right’ way to potter about. And since no one is there to judge, there is no pressure on you to get it right.

While you can’t fail or succeed at pottering, embracing the act can help you flourish. — Lana Hall, Psychologist at Sage & Sound

Pottering is not ‘doing nothing.’

Sitting around on your phone or watching a box set isn’t pottering. Neither is surfing on the internet or social media scrolling. Being digital-free means, you are not bombarded with messages, new information, advertisements. It means you have some time in a day that is truly yours.

Pottering is relaxing precisely because you are occupied in the gentlest of ways.

“It’s as though you’ve lent a sheen of legitimacy to your unstructured downtime by doing something ever so slightly useful.” — Anna McGovern

Leaving something to soak, executing a minor repair on clothing, rearranging objects on a shelf are all prime examples of this.

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How does pottering help with productivity?

There is a lot to be said for the satisfaction you gain from pottering, but pottering can help productivity by engaging the creative brain.

Often, when we are on the go, to be productive, we are, in fact, standing in our own way. Here are a few ways pottering help with productivity:

  • Pottering helps to hit the pause button. It enables us to pause and let things fall into place. It is a way of making the unconscious mind find solutions to problems.
  • When our brains are busy, we stay in a “stress response,” which leads to exhaustion and burnout. Pottering gives our brain a break allowing us to process and integrate our experiences in a way we can’t when we’re on the go. So when we come back to the task, we come back renewed and rejuvenated.
  • Moments of inspiration tend to happen when our bodies are busy, but our minds are not. When we take a break and engage in some apparently mindless activities like walking, knitting, or shoveling snow, creativity kicks in. We are much more productive when we are in a creative state of mind than in a competitive state of mind.

Pottering is one of the coping strategies that you can do when you feel a bit frazzled. It is one of the things in the armory of self-care that happens to fit in with how we are living now.

How have I incorporated pottering in my life?

I used to give work the first preference and fun and relaxation as the filler activities between work commitments. Now I have turned the other way around. I now prioritize life over work.

I walk, clean the fridge, wipe crumbs off the cutlery drawer, and arrange plastic containers in a particular way. I iron clothes till there are no more, take photos of the neighbor’s flowers when going for walks and sketch them when I get home.

I flick through books like one flick through magazines with no pressure to finish them. All hangers in my wardrobe face the same way, all towels in my linen cupboard are folded facing the same way. I fold my underclothes as Marie Kondo teaches in her videos, and I fold my tops and bottoms in packets so they can be stored in an upright manner.

What difference has it made?

I am happier. I am not rushed. I still get the same amount of work done but in an unrushed way.

Now I plan less and reflect more. I am a different person, much more pleasant to be with.

Do I feel guilty?

I don’t.

Because pottering has made me happier than ticking items off my to-do list ever did.

Weekends were meant to be for pottering, and yet, since working from home started with the pandemic, we have filled them with work too.

We need to allocate at least one day of the week to potter about. Sundays can be those days.

But if you can’t devote a whole day to pottering, don’t stress. Even a few minutes of “micro-pottering” can offer peace. My favorite micro-pottering activity is lying down on a picnic rug in my backyard and watching the clouds pass by while listening to my neighbor’s water cascade.

What is your pottering activity?

If you haven’t any, why not start something.

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How Pacing Trumps Every Other Productivity Strategy


I did it again. After my near burnout experience, I worked way beyond my capacity and fell in the bed exhausted and devastated. I still hadn’t finished my work. I kept on going back to the computer to keep editing the article, but it wasn’t making any sense. 

I admire the writers who write an article a day. Some even manage two to three articles a day. I want to become like them. But it will take me years to get there. If I try, I might be able to do that for a few weeks, but I won’t sustain it. 

A lot of accomplished writers on Medium advise writing an article a day. It is great advice if you are a seasoned writer. It is not hard to churn out an article a day if you have been writing for a couple of years or more. 

And it is true that the more you write, the easier it becomes. 

How?

  • You have more to say. Your thinking becomes clear, and you build on your previous advice.
  • Your sentence structure improves. Writing every day gives you fluency with sentence construction, which inturns make it say to express your thoughts.
  • The narrator in you is always on. It takes a while for my narrative voice to turn on when I write articles on alternate days. But if I write every day, the narrator in me stays on. It starts seeing a story in everything.

But what if you can’t write every day? What if you are still struggling with coming up with valuable content to write every day? What if you are close to burning out? 

The pacing could be a solution then.


What is Pacing?

Let me explain pacing with a story:

In 1911, two teams arrived in Antarctica with the same goal — become the first to reach the South Pole. Roald Amundsen from Norway and Robert Scott from the UK led two different teams to win the south pole’s race.

Both managed to reach the pole. But Amundsen won the race and reached 34 days earlier than Scott. 

The worst bit? Scott and 4 of his teammates died on the return journey — just 18km away from their food depot.

A lot of comparisons have been made on both teams’ approaches. Books have been written on it in great detail. The spots they choose as their base camps. Dogs vs. ponies. Amundsen used dogs while Scott used ponies. Since dogs can bear cold weather better than ponies, Amundsen could leave 11 days earlier for the expedition, while Scott had to wait for the weather to become warmer. 

Sleds vs. skis. Scott took 3 motor sleds on the expedition, but all 3 broke down very soon. Amundsen focused on making sure everyone on his team knew how to ski well.

Scott’s team was malnourished, and many faced scurvy because of a lack of vitamin C in their diet. Amundsen’s team actually gained weight during their expedition.

But the most significant difference in both their approaches was the pacing of their expedition.

Amundsen made sure his team kept a constant pace of covering between 24–32 km per day. Even if the weather were good, he would not go further. 

On the other hand, Scott pushed and trekked as far as 73 km in a single day when the weather and terrain were perfect. The ponies got extremely tired, and they couldn’t cover the average distance the next day.

While on individual good days, Scott could push and cover a lot more ground than Amundsen, overall, his pace was much slower!

It turned out that Amundsen was not only a much better planner than Scott, but he understood that the pacing was the key to coming back alive. 

The slow tortoise beat the faster hare because the hare was inconsistent in its pacing. Steady wins.

Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast.

The American Navy Seal has the saying — slow is smooth, and smooth is fast. 

If you see how elite infantry moves through a battlefield, you’ll notice that they never run. Compare them with not so well trained militia who sprints into the battle.

When things go wrong, the faster moving militia has to scamper to take cover. Their supply lines break up. And they fail to hold on to their land. 

The sure-footed elite infantry, while moving slowly, achieves their win a lot quicker.

Jim Collins tells a tale of a similar competition in his book Great by Choice. In the 1980s, computer chip maker AMD set an audacious goal to grow by 60%. To achieve their goal, they borrowed heavily. And when things didn’t go as per plan, they had to scamper to pay their debt. They almost went bankrupt, while the more sure-footed Intel took the lead!

How do you pace yourself?

Long-distance marathon runners are taught that they will lose two minutes in the second half for every minute they run faster than their average speed in the first half of their race. They need to learn to pace themselves. They need to learn to keep a constant speed even when they are not as tired early on in the race. Because for the latter part of the race, they will have the added advantage of the endorphin rush.

The way they learn to pace themselves is by understanding their bodies during the training period. They are taught to focus on their heart rate while running — to gauge their perceived exertion while running. And to slow down appropriately. They need to be able to run without huffing and puffing!

They are given the guideline always to perform less than their best capacity. 

During training, new runners are told to run a mile as fast as they can. That is their magic mile. And then, over a long distance, they are taught to run two to three minutes slower than their magic mile.


You have to understand that pacing means undershooting your best performance. 

It means doing things without exertion.

How to apply that to article writing?

Find out your peak performance by measuring how many articles you can write in a week. Then and slowing down from there. 

If you can write two articles a week comfortably, then write one article a week. This is the exact opposite of pushing yourself to do your best. It never works in the long run. And you reach your exhaustion point very soon. Once you are tired or burnt out, it takes a long time to recover. 

Besides, your mind stores the unpleasant memory, and resistance develops, which is again very hard to overcome.

Pacing is all about understanding your capabilities and managing your energy.

Tom Kuegler, a well-established Medium writer, wrote an article last week saying he will quit online writing one day because he is tired. I don’t blame him; he has been writing five articles a week for many years. 

So what is the antidote?

Pace yourself. 

Whenever you feel like sprinting, think of Hare and Tortise’s story. 

Whenever you feel like racing to achieve your goal, think of Amundsen and pace yourself.

Understand that pacing about managing your energy—it about knowing your best performance and doing less than that. Only then will you be able to do it consistently.

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Stories courtesy of Ankesh Kothari of Zenstrategies

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My Author Business Plan 2021

Every year, I spend the last week of December contemplating the year that has passed and planning the next one. I set goals and write them in my daily diary where they are in front of my eyes all the time.

This year I decided to go one step further and created the Author Business Plan to stay on track and don’t get distracted by other exciting things. 

I started in the last week of December, as usual, but didn’t finish till the first week of January, and there was a reason for that.

Something happens when the clock strikes twelve on New Year Eve. 

All that was current becomes past in a moment. 

Your perspective changes. 

The New Year’s energy brings several possibilities, and wisdom gained in the past year helps you avoid repeating the same mistakes. 

A typical Author Business Plan has five components — Business Summary, Financial Goals, Products, Publishing, and Marketing Strategy.

My Author Business Plan has different components. They are not standard, rather than based on what matters to me at this stage of life. They may not apply to you. Feel free to choose your own components. I wholeheartedly recommend Joanne Penn’s book Author Business Plan, which I used as a model to draft mine.

Let’s not forget I am turning sixty this year. Some of the things that matter to me may not be a priority for you. But then some things are universal.

Let’s get into it.

Theme

From last year, instead of setting annual goals, I started setting a theme. I wrote an article about it – Don’t set goals, set a theme instead. I urge you to read it. I promise it is worth your time.

Where goals are rigid, limiting, and unforgiving, themes are fluid, merciful, and open up new opportunities. 

With a goal, the question is, have you achieved it or not? Whereas with a theme, every action you do, you need to ask: Is this aligned with my theme?

Goal setting leaves you miserable. If you don’t achieve them, you beat yourself up, and if you do achieve them, you set another one as soon as possible.

On the other hand, themes give you achievable, meaningful daily standards you can live up to. They reduce the pressure goals create. 

A goal shuts out opportunities for current fulfillment in favor of a distant payday. A theme looks for opportunities in the present.

Last year my theme was FOCUS

I focused on learning various skills and on whatever things I was doing. The theme kept my wandering nature in check.

This year my theme is CREATE

I will enjoy the process of creation by using the skills I learned last year.

Guiding Principle

A guiding principle is an overarching principle that helps you decide what to do and what not to do?

Pick a phrase or a theme and say like, ‘At the end of my life, what do I want my actions from today to have contributed to?’

For me, that statement is, “Make sure my creativity injects hope in this world.”

The Bare Minimum

I have always been an overachiever. I will set up so many goals, so many projects, and so many endeavors that it would become physically impossible for me to accomplish them all. Then I will beat myself up for not achieving those. 

On top of that, I love spontaneity in my day. I get easily inspired and want to act on new ideas as soon as they appear. New ideas have certain energy associated with them, and if you don’t act on them immediately, they go flat like a bubble. At this stage in my life (I will be turning sixty soon), I want to follow whim rather than discipline.

This year, I will identify the bare minimum things I want to achieve and leave the rest of the time for spontaneity.

These bare minimum things are:

  1. Finish my novel.
  2. Publish six ebooks (already in draft)
  3. Write 3–5 articles a week
  4. Continue once a week newsletter A Whimsical Writer.
  5. Draw 4–5 sketches a week

Three of these goals are weekly, one bi-monthly, and one annual. I will be able to achieve these easily. The rest of my time is for me to do whatever I please. 

I might run a webinar course, start a podcast and post on social media every day for 90 days, or start doing urban sketching. These things can come and go. I will be happy if I could achieve the five bare minimum things I have identified.

Health

In 2020 I ignored my health. I stopped going to the gym when lockdown started and didn’t start properly even when gyms opened mid-year (we have been lucky here in Canberra). I ate mindlessly and put on weight. To tell the truth, I ignored health for writing. I was so consumed with following my writing goals that I didn’t make time for exercise.

This year, heath is going to come first. I am back to walking 3–4 times a week, doing weights 2–3 times a week, core training 1–2 times a week, and yoga class once a week.

I have joined WW to be accountable for my weight and investigate intermittent fasting to control my eating.

Time Off

Not being able to travel led to non-stop working in 2020. I took no breaks other than a month off in February. This impacted my sanity and perspective. This year I have blocked two weeks each quarter. Even if we couldn’t travel, I will take time off to do nothing. And if travel became possible, I intend to take longer breaks in the second half of the year.

This is how the overall plan looks like:

I am sharing it here for two reason, one to keep myself accountable to my readers and two to give you a template to write your plan if you haven’t got one.

Happy planning!

May you have a productive and safe 2021!

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How To Invite Inner Calm In 2021

I stood in the middle of my living room and looked around me. The benchtop was full of dishes to be put away. The empty shopping bags from yesterday were still lying around. The placemats were still at the meals table, needing a wipe since dinner last night. 

The washing basket was waiting patiently for my attention. 

The center table was cluttered with newspapers, books, notebooks, and laptop. The kitchen cupboards were bursting, and the fridge needed a good clean. The same was the story with every other room in the house.

I sank in a chair with despair.

How did that happen?

I am a crowned “Neat Queen,” when did I let disorder creep into my home?

There was a time, even when I was working full time, my house was tidy and spotless. I spent hours putting things in their place and wiping clean every surface multiple times. Even no one was home during the day, I still kept it tidy as if people were coming for dinner. 

I would start cleaning as soon as I woke up each Saturday morning and didn’t rest until I was done. Cleaning was the highlight of my weekends.

But then quit the job and started work working from home. I didn’t have to spend weekends cleaning because I could do it at any time. Right?

Wrong.

Being at home meant I had no designated time to clean. 

It also meant that I saw the mess all the time and stopped noticing it after a while. But my subconscious kept seeing it and got irritated by it. 

The outer disorder had started to creep in.

I had allowed the outer disorder to creep in my house.

2020 had been a tumultuous year. Everything that could go wrong went wrong. Except for the first two months, the whole year, we all dealt with the bad news. Our coping mechanism to bad news is, lie low. Let it pass. That is exactly what I did.

Couple that with a long winter in Australia, I just hibernated. Most of the days, I stayed in my pajamas all day. I cooked when I absolutely had to and cleaned when I had no choice. As a result, the disorder piled up.

Research shows clutter affects our anxiety levels, sleep, and ability to focus.

It impacts coping and avoidance strategies and makes us less productive.

We might think that we are not noticing the bursting cupboards and piles of paper stacked around the house, but research shows disorganization and clutter have a cumulative effect on our brains.

Our brains like order. Constant visual reminders of disorganization drain our cognitive resources, reducing our ability to focus.

The visual distraction of clutter increases cognitive overload and can reduce our working memory.
 
In 2011, neuroscience researchers using fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) and other physiological measurements found clearing clutter from home and work environment resulted in a better ability to focus and process information and increased productivity.

Outer order leads to inner calm.

I perhaps needed that reminder when I picked up Gretchen Rubin’s book Outer Order Inner Calm from the public library.

Outer order make us feel good. It gives us a sense of spaciousness, positivity, and creative energy. 

Organized surroundings make us feel in control. It gives the sense we have conquered the chaos not only in our surroundings but also in our lives. It makes us feel less guilty, less irritated, and less resentful towards others.

When I am surrounded by mess, I feel restless and unsettled. When I clean up that mess, I’m always surprised by the disproportionate energy and cheer I gain.

– Gretchen Rubin

Outer order help us keep an atmosphere of clarity. We are able to keep our attention focused. 

There is another more mysterious reason that outer order contributes to inner calm. 

The association between outer calm and inner calm runs deep. 

It is true that “I am not my possessions,” but “my possessions are mine.” They somehow define me and make me complete.

Ever thought of the question — if you are to go to an island for six months and can only take five things with you, what will you take? 

I find it very hard to limit myself to five things. Whenever I pack for holidays, however small, I take several things that I may or may not use but having them with me gives me a sense of security.

We extend ourselves into the things around us. They become our cocoons, the comfortable space to be in. We carry them with us everywhere we go, just as a snail carries its shell with it. 

With our possessions, we leave a mark on the world. And whether that mark is grand or modest, whether this mark is made with possessions many or few, we want to create an environment that truly suits us. — Gretchen Rubin.

The irony is that just like outer order contributes to inner calm, inner calm contributes to outer order. 

When we are calm, in control, and focused, keeping our surroundings in good order is easier. 

Whenever we are struggling, chaotic, and overwhelmed, we let our surroundings go disorderly.

“Order is Heaven’s first law.” —  Alexander Pope

We cherish our possessions, but we also want to feel free of them. 

I want to keep every object with a memory associated with it, but I also want plenty of space in my house.

Decluttering is not easy. 

Clearing clutter is exhausting because it requires us to make choices, and making choices is hard. It takes emotional energy.

Often we need to choose, which leads to confronting why we have accumulated in the first place. 

For some people owning a minimal amount of possessions make them feel free and happier. But it is not true for everyone. I am one of them.

But decluttering makes everyone happy. Rather than striving for minimal possessions, it is helpful to think about getting rid of superfluous. 

How to start to bring order to our surroundings.

As I get older, I am finding decluttering overwhelming. 

It takes a lot of physical energy, time, taxing decision-making, and is emotionally draining.

It helps to have someone to help. 

By getting rid of the thing I don’t use, don’t need, or don’t love, as well as the things that don’t work, don’t fit, or don’t suit, I free my mind — and my shelves — for what I truly value. 

Having someone to help me make decisions and deal with the grunt work of sorting, moving, packing and tossing make the task bearable.

Doing it a little by little.

I start with little things, perhaps a little area. I clean my desk and organize my papers before starting a new project. If I am having guests over, I start with cleaning the pantry and fridge before cooking. 

I do several “five-minute-sprint-cleaning” during the day where I tidy up while having a break from writing. These few minutes each day are paramount to impose some order in my surroundings.

I have found once I start, it is easier to keep going. December is my big decluttering month when I sort and discard unwanted items either by category (Marie Kondo’s way) or by area.

Oh! Old rubbish! Old letters, old clothes, old objects that one does not want to throw away. How well nature has understood that every year, she must change her leaves, her flowers, her fruit, and her vegetables, and make manure out of the mementos of her year! — Jules Renard

Hiring a regular cleaner.

For some reason, having a regular cleaner is a stigma in western society. It leads to false beliefs and social judgments such as “she is lazy,” “she has money to burn,”she doesn’t love her home to spend time cleaning it.” 

I have worked on my mindset regarding hiring a cleaner.

Rather than thinking that I am wasting money, I think I am helping someone earn a living.

Rather than thinking that I don’t love my home to spend time cleaning it, I have started thinking I value my hobbies and interests to make time for them. 

Rather than thinking, I am lazy, I think I deserve time to unwind and relax, and outsourcing cleaning is one way to get that.

I only have a finite amount of energy, which I can use to do the things I “have to do” or do the things I “want to do.” Cleaning is no longer in the “have to do” category. I am now calling my cleaner, a charming hardworking lady, more often.

My decluttering strategy. 

As I have moved to the second half of my life, I am reducing the number of things I own. I didn’t add to clutter in the house this year — I didn’t buy any clothes, nor did I buy any toiletries. I am on a mission to use the existing ones. 

I am following the “half the stuff” principle — half the number of clothes, half the number of books, half the number of decoration pieces, half the number of email subscriptions…

By getting rid of the thing I don’t use, don’t need, or don’t love, as well as the things that don’t work, don’t fit, or don’t suit, I free my mind — and my shelves — for what I truly value. 

By managing my possessions, I have learned that I have improved my stress level, physical health, intellectual vigor, and even my relationships. I now have more time for others and to pursue my interests.

In Summary — My Top Ten Tips For Creating Outer Order 

  1. When feeling down, start cleaning.
  2. Don’t put things down; put them away.
  3. Don’t buy anything that you are not going to use straight away.
  4. Follow the “five-minute-rule,” anything you can clean in five minutes, clean it. Do it as a break from writing or whatever your core activity is.
  5. Assign each day its own tasks. Mine is Monday kitchen, Tuesday bathrooms; Wednesday bedrooms; Thursday living area; Friday outdoor; Saturday washing; Sunday Ironing.
  6. Make cleaning a fun or learningexperience. Listen to a podcast or put on a YouTube video while cleaning.
  7. Have a clean surface in every room. An empty shelf, or a desk, or even an empty bedside table gives the feeling of luxury of space. In this age of excess, emptiness has its own beauty.
  8. Move the things I can’t bring myself to throw away into the garage first and then into the car’s boot (trunk) to donate. This sequential parting makes it easy to let go.
  9. Digital clutter is equally stressful. Clear away all the visual clutter for your smartphone. Regularly delete the apps you don’t use. I keep only the essential apps on the first screen and move the rest to the subsequent screens. All my writing and reading apps are on the second screen, and all the scrolling apps are pushed to the third screen so that they are out of sight. I have muted the sound of notifications. Preferably and cut back on them as much as possible.
  10. Regularly delete documents and folders you don’t need from your laptop/computer. I have two kinds of folders based on topics (such as Books, Articles, Course material)and based on the calendar year. At the end of each year, I do the final filing. Any documents I don’t need gets deleted. 

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Get that monkey off your back

I finally sent the book to the editor. And I had the rare opportunity to bask in the afterglow of finishing a project I have been working on for weeks now.

This “completion elation” surprised me a little. I was not working on it all the time. After the first week had passed, and I had compiled most of the material, it was hard to stay focused on it. The initial energy of the idea had gone. I wanted to do everything else but the project on hand.

I am becoming more and more convinced that in today’s age of too many choices (and distractions), we should finish any project as quickly as possible. There are too many new things all the time demanding our attention.

We spend too much time on a project because we want a certain degree of perfection. But often, perfection leads to procrastination.

Completion of something permits you to choose something else to take its place. That is why it is so important to finish that thing that you have started or had been on your list for a long time.

Procrastination not only fills you with guilt and self-loathing but also denies you the opportunity to move on other fun things that come next.

Get that monkey off your back.

Here is what you can do. Pick one thing that you have been postponing or slogging away for some time. Use the WOOP technique (Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, and Plan) to identify those obstacles and plan how to overcome those. Then forge ahead with new momentum. Finish it as quickly as you can.

Don’t aim for perfection, Go for completion.

A simple repeatable system to write

Writing is an awfully hard vocation to stay committed to. Most new writers feel exhausted after a productive spell and leave it for too long. That makes getting back to writing very hard.

What we need is a simple, reliable, repeatable system to follow on daily basis.

Yesterday I was listening to Austin Kleon’s interview with Joanna Penn, and I liked his system of consistently producing art.

I carry around this pocket notebook with me all day and I just write down all my stupid ideas in there. And I draw things. And I’m just writing in this notebook all day. And then when the morning comes around after we get the kids to school and that kind of thing, I sit down and I have a diary that I work in.

I usually do something visual, so I’ll either do a collage, or I’ll do a drawing, or a comic, or something. And then I’ll fill three more pages of writing.

And that’s the time where I’m looking back on yesterday, but I’m also working on what I’m thinking and that kind of thing. And then after the diary is done for the day, usually there’s something in the diary that I want to turn into a blog post or I’ll think of a good blog post or something that I want to share on my blog.

And then I go over and I do the blog post. And that can be anything from like, ‘Oh, here’s this interesting book I read,’ or, ‘Here’s this interesting quote,’ or, ‘Here’s something I drew,’ or, ‘Here’s something I made,’ or, ‘Here’s a really long post about parenting,’ or something, whatever it is.

And then once I make the blog post for the day, I’m done in a sense, creatively, as far as the baseline. That’s the work that has to get done for the day. And I work that way every morning.

And then for the rest of the day, it really depends on what’s on the docket. Today I went for a walk and we’re doing this interview, and this afternoon I’ll probably do some stuff, and I have to pick up my kid blah, blah, blah.

But that’s the thing for me that Keep Going did was it helped me establish a repetitive, repeatable daily system for producing work. Because that for me has been the thing that I was really missing in my life was some sort of method to making work all the time.

Simple. And repeatable. Yet varied enough.

He got his system from David Sedaris. David Sedaris carries a notebook around all day, scribbling in it all day long. Even when he is picking up rubbish in the streets of his village near London (he does that five to six hours a day, every day). Then at the end of the day, he sits down and writes about whatever is interesting in the notebook in his diary.

And then when he does a show, he shares some of that diary writing, sees how people react to it, makes little marks in the margin on stuff. And then he turns those pieces into essays that become books.

So it’s this iterative process of generating material, putting it out in the world, seeing how people respond to it, and then repackaging it and then putting it back out. 

Simple and elegant.

Seth Godin writes a blog post everyday. He has been doing that for twenty years now and has more than 7000 uninterrupted posts. Most of his posts are small, and all of them are without any pictures. His books, too, come from his blog.

This is a scenario where quantity trumps the quality.

There’s a great story in Art & Fear that book by Ted Orland and David Bayles. There’s an example in there where there’s a pottery class and half the class is told to just make the best pot they can. And half the class is told just make as many pots as you can. And the people in the group who were told to make as many as they could, they ended up producing more better pots or better pots than the ones who were told to make the best pot.

A simple system will produce more work and better work overtime than no system and occasional good quality work.

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