Self-doubt is your key to success. Self-confidence is overrated. Every personal development book puts “confidence” as the number one skill to achieve your goals. Like, if you have “self-confidence” everything else will come by default. The problem is most people don’t have […]
When I started writing online, I was a terrible writer. I chewed words.I mixed up tenses.My sentences were convoluted.I made several spelling mistakes. Once, in a writing workshop, a fellow writer said,“Had it not been for the story, I would have thrown […]
“What changed?” you may ask. “Everything.” I would respond. I was traveling through the US and Canada for the past 6 weeks. Each time I travel, I return as a different person. Travel changes you. You see new things. You meet new […]
We think of motivation as an example of Newton’s Law of Inertia. You better keep pushing that motivation ball or it’s guaranteed to slow down and stand still after a while. As a mental model, it’s a disaster. It implies that our […]
I started my first journal at thirteen. It was an old hardback notebook that belonged to my father. I started collecting quotes, little anecdotes, and bits of writing that inspired me. As my collection grew, and I had a bit of money, […]
Twenty-something years ago, a forty-something, overworked full-time middle manager, mother, wife, and daughter-in-law wrote a story in her head while washing dishes. She then typed that story and saved it on her desktop. That little story gave her confidence. So she wrote […]