Scott Adams has likely failed at more things than anyone you or I have met or even heard of. So how did he go from hapless office worker and serial failure to the creator of Dilbert, one of the world’s most famous syndicated comic strips, in just a few years?

In “How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big,” Adams shares the game plan he’s followed since he was a teen. Here are 7 things I took away ‘from the Adams book:

• Do creative work first. “The way I approach the problem of multiple priorities is by focusing on just one main metric: my energy. I make choices that maximize my personal energy because that makes it easier to manage all the other priorities. One of the most important tricks for maximizing your productivity involves matching your mental state to the task.”
• Don’t expect people to be reasonable. “If your view of the world is that people use reason for their important decisions, you are setting yourself up for a life of frustration and confusion. You’ll find yourself continually debating people and never winning, except in your own mind. Few things are as destructive and limiting as a worldview that assumes people are mostly rational.”
• Being selfish can be good. “The most important form of selfishness involves spending time on your fitness, eating right, pursuing your career, and still spending quality time with your family and friends.”
• Withholding Praise is Immoral. “Children are accustomed to a continual stream of criticism and praise, but adults can go weeks without a compliment while enduring criticism both at work and at home. Adults are starved for kind words.”
• Don’t read the news to find the truth. “I read the news to broaden my exposure to new topics and patterns that make my brain more efficient in general and to enjoy myself, because learning interesting things increases my energy and makes me feel optimistic.”
• System trumps goals. “One should have a system instead of a goal. The system-versus-goals model can be applied to most human endeavors. In the world of dieting, losing twenty pounds is a goal, but eating right is a system. In the exercise realm, running a marathon in under four hours is a goal, but exercising daily is a system. In business, making a million dollars is a goal, but being a serial entrepreneur is a system.”
• Every adult should gain a working knowledge of some skills. “I wouldn’t expect you to become a master of any, but mastery isn’t necessary. Luck has a good chance of finding you if you become merely good in most of these areas. They are:

1. Public speaking
2. Psychology
3. Business Writing
4. Accounting, Design (the basics)
5. Conversation
6. Overcoming Shyness
7. Second language
8. Golf
9. Proper grammar
10. Persuasion
11. Technology ( hobby level) and
12. Proper voice technique.

If you haven’t read the book, you should.

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Natalie Goldberg’s “Writing Down The Bones” is a classic book in the world of writing.

Natalie Goldberg wrote ‘Writing Down the Bones’ after many years of practicing writing as a form of meditation and self-discovery. In the book, she shares her experiences and insights on how writing can be used as a tool for personal growth and artistic expression.

Goldberg was initially inspired to start writing as a way to deal with her own feelings of anger and frustration. She found that the act of putting pen to paper helped her to release these emotions and gave her a sense of clarity and peace.

Over time, she developed a writing practice that incorporated Zen meditation and became a way for her to connect with her inner voice and explore her thoughts and emotions.

Here are ten lessons I learned from it.

1. Write as if your life depends on it. Approach your writing with a sense of urgency and importance, as if it’s a matter of life and death.
2. Don’t worry about writing well or making sense. Let go of the pressure to write perfectly. The goal is to free your mind to explore new ideas and techniques.
3. Keep your hand moving. Keep your hands moving across the page, no matter what. This helps to keep the momentum going and prevents you from getting stuck in your thoughts.
4. Don’t cross out or edit while writing. Embrace the idea that writing is a process and that it’s okay to make mistakes. It’s about trusting the process and letting the words flow without worrying about making mistakes.
5. Write for a set amount of time. Set a timer and write for a specific amount of time, without stopping. It will keep you focused and encourage you to keep writing, even if you aren’t sure where your writing is going.
6. Be specific. Write concrete, specific details rather than vague, abstract ideas. It will bring your writing to life and make it more interesting and engaging for the reader.
7. Use your five senses. To make your writing immersive, memorable and a vivid experience for readers, use all five senses.
8. Write about what is right in front of you. Write about what is happening in the present moment, rather than what happened in the past or what might happen in the future. This helps to keep the writing focused and grounded in reality.
9. Don’t write what you think you should write. Write what you want to write, rather than what you think you should write. The goal is to free the writer’s mind from the expectations of others and to allow them to explore their own unique voice.
10. Trust the process. Writing is a journey and the process of writing is just as important as the end product. The process will lead to growth and discovery, even if the end result isn’t what you had initially envisioned.

The success of Writing Down the Bones can be attributed to Goldberg’s ability to articulate the connection between writing and mindfulness in a way that resonates with readers. The book has become a classic in the world of writing and continues to inspire and guide writers of all levels.

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1. I love the sensation of my hand gliding on the paper.

It’s the best of all sensations.

“I write by hand because that is how I began, and I love it. Moving the wrist, the marks the pencil or pen leaves on the paper — like the trail of a snail — well, it is like drawing, no, it is drawing, and I am so enamoured of this activity that sometimes I write continuously without actually forming real words, I call it ‘fake handwriting,’ and it’s just as much fun as actually ‘writing’. By fun I mean it’s just as much a mystery. The whole wrist-moving action is why I write in the first place. I don’t like tennis or knitting; I like writing with my hands.”

— Mary Ruefle

2. I love the clarity writing brings me.

I write to make sense of this world. To clear my thinking. To understand the world, the people, and their motives. Whenever in doubt, depressed, or facing a dilemma, I pick up a pen and pour it all out on paper. I have been journaling for two decades now. Without writing, I wouldn’t be the person I am today.

3. I love how writing has become my therapy.

Because the words are a comfort. When things are rough and I have nowhere to go, writing becomes my solace. Writing makes my problems go away. I write and write and write until I have nothing left inside me to poison my soul.

Sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write, compose, or paint can manage to escape the madness, melancholia, panic, and fear which is inherent in a human situation. — Graham Greene

4. I love how writing has given me a voice.

I can express my joy, grief, hope, fun, love, beauty, opinions, and beliefs. I no longer feel being choked inside my throat.

Writing has such a power for exprssion. Even when you can’t talk with no one else in the whole world you can talk to your paper. Your feelings whether good, bad or indifferent. We call it despojo in Spanish, which means to be able to get rid of all this agony, weight inside of you. It brings clarity. — Piri Thomas

5. I love how writing has made me fearless.

I am no longer afraid of speaking my mind. I don’t hide my feelings anymore. Because of writing, I understand myself better and I understand this world better. Writing helps me dive into my feelings with courage.

“The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say but what we are unable to say.” — Anais Nin

6. I love how writing has helped me experience the joy of creation.

I can create people, places, and things. I can create a make-believe world, a place where I can forget my problems and relax. I can draw different meanings from different situations.

“You can make anything by writing.” — C. S. Lewis

7. I love how writing has become a tool to give back to the universe.

I have discovered that through my writing I can inspire others. When I am able to do that I somehow become bigger than myself. I no longer feel insignificant. I feel I have something important to say which can have an impact on someone’s life.

Writing has helped me make a place for myself in this world. People see me differently when they find out that I am the author of several books.

“One of the most fundamental of human fears is that our existence will go unnoticed.”― Ralph Keyes, The Courage to Write: How Writers Transcend Fear.

8. I love how writing has helped me meet fantastic people.

Some of the best people I have met in life are through writing. These people were hanging out in writing groups, writing courses, or online platforms. I would never have found them had I not been writing. Writing has given me a chance to connect with complete strangers, and have deep conversations with them. I now have friends all over the world.

9. I love the fact that writing never bores me.

The best time of my day is when I am writing. With writing, I am not worried if I have nothing else to do or nowhere to go. I can take it with me anywhere and everywhere. I can spend the rest of my life writing.

10. I love how writing has changed my overall outlook on life.

Writing could be all-consuming and isolated activity yet it has enriched my life tremendously. It has put into perspective the things I can and can’t control. It has taught me how to overcome my fears and stay true to myself.

We should write because writing brings clarity and passion to the act of living. Writing is sensual, experiential, and grounding. We should write because writing is good for the soul. We should write because writing yields us a body of work, a felt path through the world we live in. — Julia Cameron.

11. I love how writing has intensified the pleasure of traveling.

By writing about the places I visit, I have come to learn more about them than I otherwise would have. When are read my travel stories a few years later, I get to relive the experience once again.

12. I love seeing how writing has helped me grow.

When I first started writing, I didn’t know how to get my ideas across. Now, I’m much more confident when I write, and I can see my craft improving. There is nothing better than the feeling when someone reads and admires my writing.

13. I love the fact that my stories will be the only legacy I will leave behind.

Through my daily diary, I’m keeping an archive of my days. And that is what I want to leave behind for future generations.